Suzi Godson

Sex File: I'm scared to wake the children, so sex is off the menu Babies spend nine months in the womb surrounded by a cacophony of whooshing fluid and the thud, thud, thud of their mother's beating heart, but as soon as they are born they are expected to... See more

Sex File: I'm hurt that my wife has been faking her orgasm It must have come as quite a shock to discover that what you considered to be a "pretty good sex life" was not delivering in quite the same way for your wife. Although you are trying not to feel h... See more

Sex File: We had great no-strings sex, has commitment killed our spark? There was a telling omission in your letter: the absence of any reference to emotion. You say you love this man's "company" but is that it? Most couples who have been together for onl... See more

Sex File: We only make love once a month and I'm starting to resent my wife There is no right or wrong amount of sex. The only useful gauge is whether both partners are happy with their sexual relationship. However, because people perpetually lie about th... See more

Sex File: Should I be worried about my husband's old flame? I doubt you have read the latest research on sexual nostalgia but if you had, you might be forgiven for feeling a little threatened. It is a fairly niche research area, but a 2020 study at York U... See more